Handfasting as an Engagement Gesture
When you think of engagement traditions, what comes to mind first — rings, proposals, maybe a romantic dinner? But long before those modern touches, there was handfasting a deeply symbolic ritual, rooted in history, that tied hands… and hearts.
The Long History of Handfasting
Handfasting has a rich and varied history. Handfasting wasn’t always used only in wedding ceremonies. It began as a betrothal ritual - a formal promise to wed.
In medieval Scotland and parts of northern England, “handfasting” was literally the word for engagement. During a handfasting, a couple would clasp hands and pledge their commitment in front of witnesses, binding their future together. Some historical sources even suggest that in certain Celtic traditions, this trial union lasted for “a year and a day” — almost like a test period, after which the couple could choose to formalise the marriage or part ways. You can read more on our blog ‘Untangling the Cultural Roots of Ceotha’s Celtic Handfasting Cords’ which explores the fascinating evolution of handfasting over the centuries and its meanings in the modern world.
Introducing Our Engagement Boxes
We love the idea of celebrating engagements in a way that’s meaningful, personal, and a little magical. That’s why we’re thrilled to introduce our engagement boxes, specially designed to hold your handfasting cord.
These boxes are perfect for:
Creating a memorable moment when you pop the question
Celebrating a Christmas engagement with a thoughtful keepsake. Browse our Christmas Shop for more inspiration.
A unique twist on an ancient tradition, our engagement boxes can be personalised to ask that very special question.
By placing a handfasting cord inside, the box becomes more than a gift — it’s a tangible symbol of your promise, a beautiful way to honour a centuries-old tradition in a modern engagement.
In Summary
Handfasting isn’t just a “nice ritual.” Historically, it was a serious promise — a betrothal, a contract of future intent. Today, it continues to carry that weight, beauty, and symbolism. With our engagement boxes, you can bring that timeless gesture into your story — helping you celebrate your engagement in a way that’s both meaningful and magical.