The summer solstice has been marked as a powerful, sacred time for thousands of years. It’s a day tied to nature, fire, love, and growth. That’s why more and more people are choosing it as the moment to make their commitment, through the ancient ritual of handfasting.

The ritual of handfasting

Handfasting goes way back. It was once a common way for couples to commit to each other, long before modern marriage licenses and official ceremonies. The couple’s hands were tied together with a ribbon or cord - simple, symbolic, and deeply meaningful.

It’s also where the phrase “tying the knot” comes from. If you would like to read more on the history of handfasting we have a great blog on this very subject which details the early history moving into modern times.

Why the solstice matters

The summer solstice is all about light, energy, and the turning of the seasons. Everything is in full bloom. It’s a time of abundance and growth both in nature and in life. That’s what makes it such a fitting time to commit to someone. You’re saying, we choose each other, right here, in the middle of all this life.

There’s also something special about the light. At the solstice, the sun stands still. It reminds us to pause, to be present, to fully see the person we’re choosing..

Symbols of the solstice — and how to weave them in

The solstice carries its own set of natural symbols, and adding them to your cord is a lovely way to bring that energy into your ceremony.

sunflowers – bold, bright, and always facing the light, they represent joy, loyalty, and resilience. We have many cords which feature sunflowers.

sun and fire – central symbols of solstice, representing passion, life force, and warmth. Gold or yellow ribbon is a simple way to bring this in. Our new hearts entwined elements cord - fire is the perfect handfasting cord for this.

oak leaves – the oak tree is sacred in many solstice traditions, symbolising strength and endurance. You could add an oak tree charm to your handfasting cord.

herbs and flowers – lavender for calm, rosemary for remembrance, or wildflowers for abundance. Choose from a selection of delicate paper flowers to adorn your cord!
colours – golden yellow, vibrant orange, fresh green, and sky blue all feel fitting for this time of year like our nine knot -sunsets design.

Helpful tip: Whether you buy a cord or design your own, think of it as a chance to tell a story - not just of your love, but of the season, the energy, and what you want to grow together. Have a browse of our customisation guide for even more inspiration!

Some things to keep in mind

If you’re thinking about a handfasting on the summer solstice, here are a few simple ideas:

be outdoors if you can – nature is part of the ritual. It doesn’t have to be dramatic - even a backyard or quiet field will do.
use a meaningful handfasting cord – let us help tell your story through our bespoke handfasting cords.
invite people into the circle – friends, family, and loved ones in a circle makes it feel supported and whole.
mark the moment in your own way – light a candle, play a song, share vows whatever make it personal to you.

More than a ceremony

A solstice handfasting is about more than just a beautiful moment. It’s about intention. It’s about honoring the cycles of nature and stepping into a new chapter with full awareness. In a world that often rushes us along, it’s a quiet, powerful way to say: this matters.

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With love,

Ceo

Handfasting under the solstice sun: ancient roots and modern rituals